How to Love : Listen Without Interrupting

In our house, disagreements and lively debates are filled with one common phrase: "Let me finish...don't interrupt me!!!" 

Everyone wants their voice to be heard. Everyone feels their reasoning needs to be heard. 

In the Bible, the book of Proverbs 18 is full of wise words about listening to each other. 
It starts by saying in verse 1 and 2:

An unfriendly person pursues selfish ends

    and against all sound judgment starts quarrels.

Fools find no pleasure in understanding

    but delight in airing their own opinions.

In other words, an unfriendly fool has to have their voice heard and will not listen to anyone or anything else. It goes on to say that fools dig themselves into more and more problems when they don't stop talking long enough to listen.

In verse 10, we are given hope with this gem of a verse:

The name of the Lord is a fortified tower;

    the righteous run to it and are safe.

This is one of my favorite verses in the bible! No matter where we find ourselves in life we can run to our Lord and be saved from every calamity we find ourselves in! This encourages me so much and I need reminded of this often.

Back to the loving by listening topic, Proverbs 18 goes on to say in verse 15:

The heart of the discerning acquires knowledge,

    for the ears of the wise seek it out.

This means that if we are learning to be wise, we will learn to the important skill of listening to each other. Whether it be about a topic that we want to hear about or not, whether it be difficult or easy to hear ~ listen. Stop in your tracks, open your mind. Be wise. Listen. 

Verse 21 wraps up the listening lesson with:

The tongue has the power of life and death,

    and those who love it will eat its fruit.

Everyone occasionally says things they don't mean, but often we need reminded that our words have power. I can remember words said to me many years ago that still today sting in my heart. Of course I have forgiven the person saying the harmful words, but it is just an example of how a moment of irrational conversation can cause a person to never forget what has been said to them.

One of the ways we can love each other is to listen to each other without interrupting. It is really really hard sometimes to take the time to hear something that either has been said before or is not comfortable to hear. We can show love by giving our undivided attention to those that we are in a conversation with. 

Prayer:

Lord, help us to open our hearts and minds to show love in our daily conversations by listening without interrupting. Give us wisdom to know when to be quiet and give us soft words to communicate this love. Amen.

Happy Fall Y'all!

Every have those times in life when you have a lot to say and not enough words to put together to say anything of any significance? I guess that is my only explanation for not writing a blog post for a while.

Summer was very quiet this year. We made a trip to Ohio in July to visit family and had a great trip. Ken went with us this year and we made some sweet memories with both my family and his family. We also were able to get to our favorite theme park, Cedar Point. If you aren't familiar with Cedar Point, I encourage you to google it. It is the place to go if you like roller coasters! They have 15 or more of them all within the park.

                            

                       








School started and the fall season is already upon us. Today we saw glimpses of trees that are starting to change colors already. Last week, we had the furnace on twice and shortly after experienced a bizarre heat wave that soared the temperature to 95 degrees on Wednesday! Today, we are cool again and we may need to turn on the furnace again this weekend.

Encouragement for the day: 

"God loves us, He is taking care of us, and He’s got the whole world in His hands"

Walking on Sunshine!

Summer has arrived and is in full swing! We are so thankful for this season!!!

In New England, the school year ended later due to Hurricane Sandy and the snowstorms. All of these major weather events are said to be very rare for this region but they keep happening! It's a mystery and each event is yet another example of the mighty power of our Creator. We are thankful to be safe, we are thankful we survived and we are moving forward - even if it is later than normal.

Our summer plans this year are rather vague. We are planning a trip to Ohio to visit family and possibly taking a short trip to upper New England to see some recommended sites. That is about it for travel plans.

Josh has plans with friends quite regularly. Em is involved with youth group at church and has a fun activity with them about once a week. Ken and I try to keep up with the kids plans and have enjoyed doing several fun outside projects together on the weekends.

Aside from all of that, we are in total summer mode! Sleeping in, deep cleaning, organizing, playing with Buddy, home school curriculum planning for both kids, eating delicious fruit, baking, reading and positively loving summer!


 "No eye has seen, no ear has heard, and no mind has imagined the things that God has prepared for those who love Him." 1 Corinthians 2:9